Unpopular opinion: some people should not have children.

    by depressedsinnerxiii

    31 Comments

    1. IrrelevantManatee on

      So sad that his masculinity is so fragile that it can be shattered by seing his partner’s vagina being used for anything other than sex.

    2. They should have to watch it come out, watch the stitches, help mom use the bathroom the first time after, help her use the bathroom every time they are are home…
      Too many of my friends got pressured into sex too soon after and were uncomfortable and unhappy. Too many partners don’t think pushing a watermelon through a toilet paper tube is a big deal. Too many men won’t have the V because they think it will hurt too much and they shouldn’t have to go through that.
      Nope, they should all watch.

    3. Agree. Was cornered to watch my brother’s GF’s birth tape. It is still etched in my brain.

    4. Frankly

      Dad’s job is on the other end of the bed

      Supporting the mom, having his hands crushed, wiping her brow, feeling helpless

      The delivery end is for the professionals

    5. Rockin_freakapotamus on

      I watched both of mine. I gained incredible amounts of respect for my wife. Man up and support your significant other.

    6. scottonaharley on

      I watched both of mine and after some time passed it had zero effect on our intimate life. The first three months of infant care sort of resets everything. Pretty much with children your thoughts are more about where the are going…not where they came from anyway…Unless they come in the door covered in mud…then you definitely want to know where they came from. Parents will get this. There are definitely certain things that can only be understood by actually having the experience of being a parent.

    7. Yes! As a father/husband, I watched my daughters birth. I was in awe and amazement. The most beautiful things ever. Yes, it was shocking at first. But when you hear your child crying from their first breaths of life. All the yuck goes out the window. I feel every parent on the other side, the dad side. Idc if you’re straight or gay. If you can see the birth of your child, I can’t stress how important that is.

    8. Notbadconsidering on

      He was 100% correct when he stated it was an unpopular opinion. Probably the only time he’s been right about anything.

    9. Lookingforascalp on

      I watched all 4 of mine, not gonna lie I almost passed out the first time seeing it. But I was cool the last 3

    10. Thelastknownking on

      If watching the long term outcome of your actions unsettles you, maybe it’s a sign the relationship isn’t meant to last.

    11. My first little dude punched his way into the world like Superman. He came out fist first. I wouldn’t trade that experience for anything.

      My wife’s vagina certainly didn’t appreciate his approach though. Not coming out head first caused some tearing.

      That’s life. If you can’t handle seeing your wife in an unflattering light, why are you even married?

    12. Yeah, that’s not a problem for real people. The real tragedy from this picture, if any, is wearing a Bass Pro hat to your baby’s birth.

    13. Scooter-breath on

      Dude, settle, i just walked in the wrong room. I apologized and left after about 15 minutes.

    14. skellytoninthecloset on

      Remembering how supportive and loving my partner was while I gave birth to our child is one of my best, most cherished memories. It was the start of the three of us, and despite the terror and pain, I wouldn’t trade that for anything. He was everything I needed.

      He also has this crazy ability to think of me as a person and not a sex object, so that might be a place for OOP to start.

    15. Sometimes I wonder how we still have countries where religions affect so much everything. Like a Muslim theocracy. 

      In the past, when societies where almost isolated, it was like the only option. But right now, there’s internet almost everywhere. So people know there are other options, obviously much better in my opinion. 

      But then, you get guys like this one that want the set of rules of the others societies, the theocratic ones. Or the politicians ban any form of abortion, like it happened in the USA. 

      So yeah, there’s actually people in western societies that don’t agree with me and prefer a model closer to what was also our past. 

    16. I have heard it being described as watching your favourite pub burn down. But that’s just what you do.

    17. Translation: Poster thinks it is icky, and feels all men about listen to his shithead opinion on the matter.

      My wife had two kids naturally, and it was an amazing process to behold.

    18. Well he’s right about one thing:

      …it _is_ an unpopular opinion. Wrong about everything else tho.

    19. The only time the father should not be there with his wife giving birth is if his wife doesn’t want him there for some reason.

      The father choosing to skip because of the above reason is disgusting. Imagine being so selfish that you only give the hard part to your partner, content with using her just as a fuck buddy instead of being a support.

      Seriously, man the fuck up if your gonna be that squeamish, at least faint while doing something good

    20. I guess if you’re this emotionally stunted or immature, then you really shouldn’t but I’m pretty sure that’s been the case for a while now…

    21. This is just another example of people with miscues trying to get the environment and culture to accommodate them instead of doing even a little bit of self-reflection.

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