Tyler is going to be divorced sooner than later

    by Detroitish24

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    1. That poor woman. I can’t imagine what it must be like to handle a helpless, needy infant *and* their newborn son.

    2. A few weeks without sex and he wants to throw his whole relationship away for a fling?? Lol has this guy never heard of jacking off? What a tool

    3. This idiot has no idea how having a baby works and how much it messes with our bodies, physically and mentally. No wonder women are opting out

    4. I feel bad for her, but its safe to say she chose to marry and procreate with this chud. Imagine this was your dad though? Poor kid.

    5. pine-cone-sundae on

      what a selfish entitled POS.

      — *dad who is ok if it’s isn’t 24/7 nana time for me*

    6. We just gonna ignore that he’s pressuring her for sex right after the baby was born? You’re supposed to wait at least 4-6 weeks to recover from the birth.

    7. CharlotteLucasOP on

      I have now seen this man being torn to shreds on at least 3 different social media platforms.

      Great work, everyone.

    8. MindlessRip5915 on

      His second post is _so close to getting it_. The whole point of expressing your feelings is to start a dialogue and work through issues with shared understanding. If he really feels unloved, perhaps he should bring that up *with his partner* rather than the world’s largest misogynistic and hateful echo chamber because I’d place odds that her response would smack down that belief pretty fast and explain why she’s not able to be as attentive to him as he’s used to.
      Her response would probably also ask for some understanding and help with the newborn since children benefit more when both parents are involved.

      But no, asking fucking *Twitter* is where he goes for what really needs to be a conversation with the person he’s talking about.

    9. super_sucky_reddit on

      What a pathetic twat. His wife literally pushed another human from her womb, and her man baby husband is mad.

    10. “People tell me to express how I feel, but then they don’t like it when I’m a whiny, selfish little doofus.”

    11. Hey Tyler…speaking as a man with children…you’re a fucking disgrace to men.

      You “understand why men cheat” when their wives have just given birth? Seriously? You don’t fucking understand what the word ‘understand ‘ means.

      I’m not calling you out for being a little self absorbed whining pussy. I’m calling you out for being a fucking dumb worthless piece of shit.

    12. ” the baby is easy, but my wife’s ignoring me” translates very easily to ” I’m not helping, and she’s exhausted”….

    13. Nopantsbullmoose on

      Now now, lets show some compassion and encouragement.

      Yes Tyler, we are all glad that you are willing and able to express your emotions. That is good progress.

      Too bad your emotions just make you look like a fucking whiny asshole with zero empathy or compassion.

      Honestly, $100 says he wasn’t in the room when his kid was born. I was with my SO for the whole birthday and I guaran-damn-tee you that if you sat with your SO through the whole birth process like I did (22 hours, little bastard didn’t want to come out) you’d be more than willing and able to be understanding, compassionate, and resilient as your SO recovers.

      Because fuckin hell….seeing what they go through to give birth should humble the shit out of you.

    14. toomanymarbles83 on

      This is definitely the kind of person who tries to guilt their wife into post-pregnancy sex before she is ready for it.

    15. New requirement: Teach everything about pregnancy in high school so boys don’t grow up to be total assholes.

    16. santosdragmother on

      I’m actually so fucking sick of men like this. ten bucks he promised her he’d be supportive and act like a father and pick up the slack.

      NOPE he’s just wanting to cheat on his bang maid since she’s busy with some other person (the baby).

    17. Baby is easy because he probably doesn’t do shit. I bet if he tried to help more, the wife would want to at least look at his face. If you get her side of the story, I bet it sounds a lot different

    18. “Men need to express themselves more” does not mean “it’s totally acceptable to be a self-centered jerk on main.”

      Save that shit for venting to one or two safe friends.

    19. No-Business3541 on

      Express your feelings sure but try to be self aware too godamn.
      I am sure wife is happy to know her husband is self centered enough to cry to strangers on the internet for 8 weeks of “ignorance” and thinking of cheating. He’s clearly not occupied enough.

    20. Dude, women literally can’t get intimate until like 6 to 8 weeks later. We tried at 4 weeks and had to immediately stop. Also, sex or yourself should be at the bottom of your list of priorities.

    21. Mark my words, when this prick’s wife eventually divorces him for showing no interest in his kid he’s going to claim he’s super dad and seek shared parenting/custody not because he gives a damn about his kid but to reduce his support payments.

      /jaded family law lawyer

    22. Special-Garlic1203 on

      The issue isn’t that you expressed how you feel, it’s that only an asshole would feel that way. 

    23. He’s confusing expressing how he feels with ONLY being concerned with how he feels. But can’t say I’m really surprised though.

    24. RandomMcUsername on

      From a male therapist perspective – It’s pretty telling that he hasn’t actually named a single feeling or emotion in his attempt to express how he feels. Like, “neglected” and “unloved” are states of being, perhaps, but in this instance are just thinly veiled deflections to blame his wife for, in his view, neglecting and not loving him. Expressing an emotion would mean saying how he feels *if* he was neglected and unloved, e.g. “I feel lonely and jealous because my wife is caring for our infant child instead of me”. Now, these are valid feelings but don’t entitle him to cheat or badger her into being “intimate” with him. They also point to a whole other set of dysfunctional beliefs about being entitled to her care and his own responsibilities (or lack thereof) to care for his infant (and partner for that matter). 
      So, men, let’s please do express our actual emotions but don’t think it gives us a free pass to act like a toddler or avoid changing our beliefs

    25. Dude probably wants to have a trad wife who has to be available at all times. Your job as a dad is to be a good support system for your wife who just had a bowling ball come out of her.

    26. From my personal experience, if you put a lot of effort into being a dad who’s present and spending time with the new baby and changing diapers and helping with the feeding and bathing, your wife will find you attractive.

    27. So, what, he screamed at her until she put out? Dude should’ve thrown on some porn and shut the fuck up.

    28. PossibilityDecent688 on

      No baby is easy in the first eight weeks. I was still walking a little bowlegged at that point.

    29. Men will post their problems on Twitter to argue with random people but won’t just 1) journal and 2) talk to an actual therapist

    30. There’s kind of a big difference between “Men should express how they feel” and “What you’re expressing is selfish and shows a distinct lack of empathy for another human being.”

    31. The baby is easy says the guy whose wife is doing literally all the parenting.

      Men who bitch that they can’t be vulnerable also believe you’re allowed to just say how you feel any time and have it be accepted as reasonable. But adults have times when their feelings are inappropriate or wrong or not right to mention right now.

    32. HansNotPeterGruber on

      Scott’s a bitch. I loved being a new Dad. The 6 weeks or so without sex was a bummer but you sorta forget about it when you’re playing with your new tiny Mini-Me. It’s a ton of work but it’s pretty fucking awesome. This dude sounds insufferable.

    33. “I had to start a fight to get attention” is a crazy fucking way to phrase “I’m a useless piece of shit who’s not going to have a healthy relationship with my kids”

    34. I don’t know who this man is, or why anyone should care what he thinks or says. But he does seem like he sucks.

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