Most of the time when I wake up, I feel like my mind has a shell on it.
This shell, makes thinking very vague, makes me distracted, anxious.
Not fully aware of time, and most of the time the shell breaks, but very late in the day
However, once the shell breaks.. I feel normal again, very aware, productive and sane.
For years this has been the case, and every time I realize how important braking the shell early is.
It makes your day better in every way,
How to break it?
- Realize that you have to suffer for a bit, at the start of each day.
- The shell is not that shallow, it requires focus and commitment to finish your first task that is heavy.
- Do it, despite of the pain, despite of the feeling uncomfortable, distracted
- Now that you have accepted that you will feel pain in the process, it makes it easier
- Write all of your takes in a clear way, an example that worked with me:
- (Task) (Expected How long it takes)
- (Bullet points on how to do it)
- (Bullet points on how to do it)
- (Task) (Expected How long it takes)
- Real life example:
- Access Review Report (30 Minutes)
- Check the email from John that has all the report statistics
- Download the template from internal Sharepoint portal
- Fill the require info from the email into the report
- Access Review Report (30 Minutes)
I have been working overtime for years, missing deadlines and feeling stressed most of the time.
I have grey hair in my beard,
I believe that I wouldn't have that much suffering I have been breaking the shell early in the day.
My mind see everything completely different once the shell breaks.
BREAK THE SHELL EARLY GUYS/GIRLS. It helps.
Relevant Image: https://imgur.com/iT1anpK
by iYassr
4 Comments
Neat.
I’m not sure my shell survives the morning. If I’ve slept well enough, my intrusive thoughts and the “pain” or uncomfortable things that need done leave no trace of the shell for me to cling to.
I get the shell in the evening after I’ve done what I can, later in the evening it’s needed to allow my thoughts to chill out.
My shell is called migraine
I love this! Now that I realize my problem is a shell, maybe I can fix it! I don’t feel like I’m awake until like 230-6pm. Then all of a sudden I’m awake. Is that kind of what you’re describing? I feel really guilty that I don’t do much of anything until I feel awake. I then race around getting done what I can, if I’m lucky. If I don’t I get depressed.
I really like your analogy.
Just eat the frog