I know I’m in the minority (or by myself completely) but if I don’t have a connection and trust the sex will always be trash. If I trust you imma feel comfortable enough to let loose. If I barely know you imma be too shy to do all the fun stuff.
robcap on
The first month or two of a new relationship, the sex gets better and better as you figure each other out
iPlowedUrMom on
This is so stupid.
If you’re willing to throw a relationship away after one night of sex, then you’re a hoe (any gender) who is expecting magic dick/puss.
Sex is a craft. It’s highly customized. It’s tailored to the party.
Ain’t no one come with turn by turn directions to an orgasm. Shit, personally speaking, I’m a nomad, it’s never the same direction to get me to nut. Sometimes you’ve got to squeeze;
Sometimes you’ve got to say please
tittylieutenant on
I disagree. It takes me a few dates to warm up to someone, especially for sex. I don’t know anything about you and you want me to buss it in you on the first date?? I am using that time to pick up on red flags and see if I’m feeling you beyond physical attraction.
Not to mention, sex is supposed to be fun. How you finna put someone on the stand and demand they perform off rip? What if someone had a rough day and their head isn’t in it?
Parson1616 on
I’m conflicted on this, I feel like sex too early accelerates everything and leaves nothings to anticipation.
lankyaspie on
Unpopular opinion?
Legend of Korra show > Avatar the Last Airbender show
GreatGalleti on
I kinda agree. Waiting for months for a potential sexual mismatch is bad for both parties involved but first date may be a bit much for a lot of people. Date 2/3 is the sweet spot
Realistic_Effort6185 on
We are both grown…
Alternative_Depth498 on
I would flip the argument OP is making and say you should never have sex outside of a committed relationship. Why? Because sex is much more complex than people want to believe. OP comment is the result of reductive logic. First time sex is average at best on the technicals. It only feels amazing because it’s new/exciting. Lots of people don’t perform well the first time because of the emotional aspects and being so vulnerable with another human being. Sex is like a fine wine and gets better with time and practice facilitated by open communication and building trust.
keyrodi on
This tweet is aimed towards younger folks I’m thinking, but nowadays, I can’t fuck someone I just met tbh
Used to back in college and in my early 20s back when it was a novelty, but it lost its luster once I got into actual relationships and realized how much better sex is when you rock with a person, at least for me. One night stands or a situationship just can’t compare.
BeetleBones on
You bang on day 1 or day 90. No in between
Starfish_Hero on
Hot take: the people rushing to make a judgment on whether someone is worth dating or not as early as possible are self sabotaging and typically aren’t great sexual partners themselves since they’re hyperfocused on their own pleasure and not connecting with their partner.
No-Condition5134 on
If the chemistry there it’ll be good. Sex has a mental aspect to it as well. Stress and anxiety and other factors play a part. So if you stimulate her mentally it’ll be there.
Millenniumeagle1 on
Nah I can’t agree with this. Some people just aren’t comfortable with having sex on the first date, but also I feel like it’s pretty rare to have great sex the first time. You might not know what the other person likes, they might not want to share what they like, you could both be in your head, etc.
Plus it usually gets better over time as you learn so throwing it away off one bad time seems premature
MikeJones-8004 on
Waiting til marriage for sex(or at the least engagement) is best.
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I know I’m in the minority (or by myself completely) but if I don’t have a connection and trust the sex will always be trash. If I trust you imma feel comfortable enough to let loose. If I barely know you imma be too shy to do all the fun stuff.
The first month or two of a new relationship, the sex gets better and better as you figure each other out
This is so stupid.
If you’re willing to throw a relationship away after one night of sex, then you’re a hoe (any gender) who is expecting magic dick/puss.
Sex is a craft. It’s highly customized. It’s tailored to the party.
Ain’t no one come with turn by turn directions to an orgasm. Shit, personally speaking, I’m a nomad, it’s never the same direction to get me to nut. Sometimes you’ve got to squeeze;
Sometimes you’ve got to say please
I disagree. It takes me a few dates to warm up to someone, especially for sex. I don’t know anything about you and you want me to buss it in you on the first date?? I am using that time to pick up on red flags and see if I’m feeling you beyond physical attraction.
Not to mention, sex is supposed to be fun. How you finna put someone on the stand and demand they perform off rip? What if someone had a rough day and their head isn’t in it?
I’m conflicted on this, I feel like sex too early accelerates everything and leaves nothings to anticipation.
Unpopular opinion?
Legend of Korra show > Avatar the Last Airbender show
I kinda agree. Waiting for months for a potential sexual mismatch is bad for both parties involved but first date may be a bit much for a lot of people. Date 2/3 is the sweet spot
We are both grown…
I would flip the argument OP is making and say you should never have sex outside of a committed relationship. Why? Because sex is much more complex than people want to believe. OP comment is the result of reductive logic. First time sex is average at best on the technicals. It only feels amazing because it’s new/exciting. Lots of people don’t perform well the first time because of the emotional aspects and being so vulnerable with another human being. Sex is like a fine wine and gets better with time and practice facilitated by open communication and building trust.
This tweet is aimed towards younger folks I’m thinking, but nowadays, I can’t fuck someone I just met tbh
Used to back in college and in my early 20s back when it was a novelty, but it lost its luster once I got into actual relationships and realized how much better sex is when you rock with a person, at least for me. One night stands or a situationship just can’t compare.
You bang on day 1 or day 90. No in between
Hot take: the people rushing to make a judgment on whether someone is worth dating or not as early as possible are self sabotaging and typically aren’t great sexual partners themselves since they’re hyperfocused on their own pleasure and not connecting with their partner.
If the chemistry there it’ll be good. Sex has a mental aspect to it as well. Stress and anxiety and other factors play a part. So if you stimulate her mentally it’ll be there.
Nah I can’t agree with this. Some people just aren’t comfortable with having sex on the first date, but also I feel like it’s pretty rare to have great sex the first time. You might not know what the other person likes, they might not want to share what they like, you could both be in your head, etc.
Plus it usually gets better over time as you learn so throwing it away off one bad time seems premature
Waiting til marriage for sex(or at the least engagement) is best.